Pinaghahandaan ng mga ikakasal ang lahat ng mga bagay na kinakailangan bago pa man dumating ang pinakahihintay na araw. Tunay na pinagagastusan at pinaglalaanan ng mahabang panahon upang siguraduhing lahat ay maayos at wala niisang nakakalimutan.
Mahalaga rin ang pagbigay pansin sa mga taong nakapalibot at nagtatatrabaho sa araw ng kasal dahil sila ang nasa likod at nagbibigay ng magagandang alaala sa araw ng selebrasyon.
Katulad nalang ng isang wedding photographer na siyang kumukuha ng mga larawan ng bawat sandali at masasayang pangyayari sa selebrasyon na humantong sa pagbura niya ng lahat ng mga kuhang larawan, ito'y matapos siyang di pinagbigyan ng groom sa kaunting pabor na kanyang hiningi.
Nais lang sana niyang kumain at makainom ng tubig sabay na makapagpahinga narin ng ng sandali dahil halos 7-oras na siyang nakatayo, sunod-sunod sa bagong kasal makuhanan lamang sila ng mga magagandang larawan.
"I told the groom I need to take off for 20min to get something to eat and drink,"
"I started around 11am and was due to finish around 7:30pm. Around 5pm, food is being served and I was told I cannot stop to eat because I need to be photographer; in fact, they didn't save me a spot at any table,"
Gayunpaman, hindi siya pinagbigyan bagkus ay binantaan pa siyang umalis na lang na walang bayad.
"He tells me I need to either be photographer, or leave without pay,"
Hindi siya makpagpigil sa naging askyon ng groom dala narin kanyang pagod at gutom ay binura at wala siyang tiniraa sa lahat ng mga kuha niyang larawan sa bagong kasal.
"With the heat, being hungry, being generally annoyed at the circumstances, I asked if he was sure, and he said yes, so I deleted all the photos I took in front of him and took off saying I'm not his photographer anymore,"
Aminadong hindi siya isang professional wedding photographer at alam naman din umano ito ng mag-asawa dahil tanging kinukuhanan lang niya ng mga pictures ay ang mga Aso na gini-groom niya.
"I'm not really a photographer, I'm a dog groomer. I take lots of photos of dogs all day,"
At dahil kaibigan niya ang bride na alam niyang gipit din sa budget pumayag siya para sa $250 sa sampung oras na event.
"As for shooting people eating: no, they have a daughter who was running around and I was on "kid duty" while everyone else was eating,"
Narito ang buong post ng wedding photographer:
Not the A-hole
AITA for deleting my friend's wedding photos in front of them?
I'm not really a photographer, I'm a dog groomer. I take lots of photos of dogs all day to put on my Facebook and Instagram, it's "my thing" if that makes sense. A cut and a photo with every appointment. I very seldom shoot things other than dogs even if I have a nice set up.
A friend got married a few days ago and wanting to save money, asked if I'd shoot it for them. I told him it's not really my forte but he convinced me by saying he didn't care if they were perfect: they were on a shoestring budget and I agreed to shoot it for $250, which is nothing for a 10 hour event.
On the day of, I'm driving around following the bride as she goes from appointment to appointment before the ceremony, taking photos along the way. I shoot the ceremony itself, and during the reception I'm shooting speeches and people mingling.
I started around 11am and was due to finish around 7:30pm. Around 5pm, food is being served and I was told I cannot stop to eat because I need to be photographer; in fact, they didn't save me a spot at any table. I'm getting tired and at this point kinda regretting doing this for next to nothing. It's also unbelievably hot: the venue is in an old veteran's legion and it's like 110F and there's no AC.
I told the groom I need to take off for 20min to get something to eat and drink. There's no open bar or anything, I can't even get water and my two water bottles are long empty. He tells me I need to either be photographer, or leave without pay.
With the heat, being hungry, being generally annoyed at the circumstances, I asked if he was sure, and he said yes, so I deleted all the photos I took in front of him and took off saying I'm not his photographer anymore. If I was to be paid $250, honestly at that point I would have paid $250 just for a glass of cold water and somewhere to sit for 5min.
Was I the @sshole? They went right on their honeymoon and they've all been off of social media, but a lot of people have been posting on their wall asking about photos with zero responses.
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Source: Reddit | Icy-Reserve6995
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